how to find your style + the confidence to wear it


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  • Kiera Noelle
    Kiera Noelle  21 hours back

    TRY THINGS ON IN THE STORE oh my goodness. 23 years and I just got this down this year. I shop for specifics (jeans, T-shirt’s, cardigans) and I will narrow down within each category (dark/medium wash, dressy or casual shirts, work cardigans to be embroidered or cardigans for dress down). It helps stay on budget and to not go crazy with your style.

    I love these tips! I just dress business casually/naturally (cotton, linen, natural fibers) and I had a lot of the same mindset. It’s gone well :)

    • Melanie Rxse
      Melanie Rxse  1 days back

      Thanks so much! This really helped a lot! <3

      • Ada Erman
        Ada Erman  1 days back

        You are so adorable! I'm subscribing!

        • Roobacca _
          Roobacca _  3 days back

          me crying in British because my only clothes are school uniforms

          • Tee_ Time
            Tee_ Time  1 days back

            Yes I feel you girl 😣

        • Sleeping Carrot
          Sleeping Carrot  3 days back

          Honestly cannot wear or buy whatever i like to wear bc of my Asian parents saying that i look like a pig everyday
          I have one pleaded skirt i bought with my friend that they let me wear sOmEtiMes bc its tOo coLd
          Lmao idk

          • Marilyn Broadfoot
            Marilyn Broadfoot  3 days back

            Lol my school has a dress code and on the weekends in kinda a loser so like i just hang out in my pj's all day so i rlly dont have a style.

            • Isabel Alexander
              Isabel Alexander  3 days back

              dark academia. preppy with a little grunge

              • Sophie Ezra
                Sophie Ezra  3 days back

                I really needed this ❤️

                • Crazy Kate
                  Crazy Kate  4 days back

                  My style is literally anything I like and looks good on me

                  *oh wait, that’s what a style is*

                  • Katherine Mahoney
                    Katherine Mahoney  4 days back

                    This is such an wonderful explanation of the process, I do this exact thing

                    • Bonniella ASMR
                      Bonniella ASMR  4 days back

                      My style is just to wear jeans and a cute shirt with sneakers....

                      • Sally Hamson
                        Sally Hamson  4 days back

                        My style is boots, a grey sweater, jeans, and a green jacket. I have a lot of green jackets that it has gotten to a point...

                        • Leona F
                          Leona F  5 days back

                          my anxiety doesn’t let me wear something really fancy

                          • Lowlife Lia
                            Lowlife Lia  5 days back

                            Thank you so much, you've made me feel so comfortable with my style. I absolutely love my current style thanks to this amazing video and your lookbooks. Im glad that i have someone to look up to in a Fasion sense !!

                            • julianna moore
                              julianna moore  5 days back

                              6:51 what is ur bi-polar and u don't know which personality to reflect lmao

                              • { kaylapitter }
                                { kaylapitter }  5 days back

                                *me having 2 tee shirts

                                "Ah yes, time to assess"

                                • Ice Cream
                                  Ice Cream  5 days back

                                  I relate a lot to when some1 says ohhh look who's wearing a dress today like it's so... annoying in a way cuz I'm just trying to experiment yanno

                                  • Charlie
                                    Charlie  6 days back

                                    I respect everything you said but I refuse to give up my cute shoes bc of my lifestyle/retail worker feet !! They're cute and I love them !!!

                                    • Lori Bedard
                                      Lori Bedard  6 days back

                                      If I don’t know what to wear I just put on jeans and a sweater. Light jeans with a dark sweater or dark jeans with a light sweater is awesome.

                                      • Tiaphar
                                        Tiaphar  6 days back

                                        Thx this helped alot!

                                        • Nicole Lizama
                                          Nicole Lizama  6 days back

                                          I don’t know your background

                                          • elen.a.h
                                            elen.a.h  1 weeks back

                                            thank you for this video 💕

                                            • sunflower skies
                                              sunflower skies  1 weeks back

                                              i don’t know where to get clothes frommmmm

                                              • Antonia Caragea
                                                Antonia Caragea  1 weeks back

                                                what if i’m too afraid to radically change my style and can’t bare the comments in the process because i’m already insecure?

                                                • Revanne S
                                                  Revanne S  1 weeks back

                                                  The problem is not in my confidence/style, I think I can pull them off if I have money

                                                  • Amira Bhayat
                                                    Amira Bhayat  1 weeks back

                                                    I have a style, but I’m not allowed to wear short stuff so it basically ruined my whole style so it’s great 🤠

                                                    • honestly ,sO TrAsHhH
                                                      honestly ,sO TrAsHhH  1 weeks back

                                                      I’ve been trying to dress in what I think looks nice but my fucking gut is stopping me. Especially after a little something called upper ab fat. Like I just wanna dress nice. 😔

                                                      • strawberrie
                                                        strawberrie  1 weeks back

                                                        my style is just brandy crops and sweatpants

                                                        • strawberrie
                                                          strawberrie  1 weeks back

                                                          just search up "aesthetic outfits" on google instead of instagram, it works better

                                                          • malyourgal
                                                            malyourgal  1 weeks back

                                                            my style is either librarian grandma or 70s hippie

                                                            • Samantha4263
                                                              Samantha4263  1 weeks back

                                                              I like only wear t shirts with a hoodie. If I’m feeling rebellious I’ll wear a cropped(ish I’m not that scandalous) hoodie. And if I’m feeling really edgy, I’ll wear a shirt and a sweater. 😱 I’m like so insecure abt fashion I’ll only wear that. Like, I am too insecure to even t r y o n smt I like😑

                                                              • YourKpop FanGirl
                                                                YourKpop FanGirl  1 weeks back

                                                                This is really helpful

                                                                • Alexa Moon
                                                                  Alexa Moon  1 weeks back

                                                                  i literally just found u a few days ago and i— where have u been all my life

                                                                  • abi noyes
                                                                    abi noyes  1 weeks back

                                                                    I didn't realize how "modest" I dressed until my family pointed out that they hadnt seen my collarbones in months

                                                                    • Polynerdeia
                                                                      Polynerdeia  1 weeks back

                                                                      Btw, this is the video that made me discover and fall in love with Ashley 🌸

                                                                      • Star Blue
                                                                        Star Blue  1 weeks back

                                                                        I like that you talk fast!! Wish all youtubers did.

                                                                        • Siena
                                                                          Siena  2 weeks back

                                                                          "Look at your wardrobe first"

                                                                          *me and my 3 shirts and 1 sock*

                                                                          • Jana Banana
                                                                            Jana Banana  2 weeks back

                                                                            Exactly what I needed

                                                                            • Grace Min
                                                                              Grace Min  2 weeks back

                                                                              wait. what about your mom just buys your clothes and you don't like the clothes in your wardrobe.

                                                                              • Real human person
                                                                                Real human person  2 weeks back

                                                                                My style is struggling,coffee-addict, finger gun librarian.

                                                                                • REvelvet
                                                                                  REvelvet  2 weeks back

                                                                                  All the clothes hat I own are not my style.....

                                                                                  • Min Yoongi
                                                                                    Min Yoongi  2 weeks back

                                                                                    i dont have clothes to wear to go shopping.


                                                                                    MY WARDROBE IS LITTERALLY JEANS AND A SHIRT.
                                                                                    NOW MY PARENTS ARE FORCING ME TO GO SHOPPING WHEN MY JEANS ARE IN THE WASH.


                                                                                    • d a n a
                                                                                      d a n a  2 weeks back

                                                                                      what’s ur Pinterest if I have one??

                                                                                    • Chlorine Bleach
                                                                                      Chlorine Bleach  2 weeks back

                                                                                      i like a more "creepy cute" kind of style but my only issue is my parents

                                                                                      • Megan henwood
                                                                                        Megan henwood  2 weeks back

                                                                                        My styles are
                                                                                        1.80s wannabe
                                                                                        2.basic af
                                                                                        3.90s wannabe

                                                                                        • Victoria West
                                                                                          Victoria West  2 weeks back

                                                                                          But where are the oxblood croc purse and oxblood shoes from???!!! Loved them!

                                                                                          • Victoria Lopez
                                                                                            Victoria Lopez  2 weeks back

                                                                                            Thank you so much for this. This video honestly means a lot to me. I’ve been trying to finally find my girly adventure side in fashion but I’m slightly insecure because I use to have a “tomboy” phase, so being able to hear these words really inspired me to start finding what I truly like and not be afraid and just wear sweaters to hide my outfits.

                                                                                            • Kimberly White
                                                                                              Kimberly White  2 weeks back

                                                                                              Why did i watch this? I know my style🤔