how to find your style + the confidence to wear it


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  • Allison Van Rensburg
    Allison Van Rensburg  3 hours back

    Girl, what if your like me a 15 year old that has a LITERAL super mature style but you also have a face like a 9 year old and the twp just DO NOT fit, how do ya make that work?? (BTW this is totally not a hate comment ive been struggling with this for more over a year now!!)

    • Antonia
      Antonia  21 hours back

      everyone is saying that you are a big sister, so I just hope that you also have someone in your life to lean on....we love you :)

      • Ava Noelle
        Ava Noelle  23 hours back

        I know what I want my style to be, I’m just broke lol

        • zoinks
          zoinks  2 days back

          i cannot for the life of me decide if i want to be colourful or black and white, perhaps soft colours or just *checkered everything*

          • Alys Bjorgan
            Alys Bjorgan  2 days back

            The huge problem for me is that I’m a people pleaser, so I had to throw out half of my closet because of what people where saying😅and I’m in a really small town where there are no good clothing stores

            • Roblox Girl
              Roblox Girl  2 days back

              I wish she was my sister lol She wouldn't let me dress with all that sh*t that I have in my closet

              • Nichole Sheeran
                Nichole Sheeran  2 days back

                I love your plants

                • Lucy
                  Lucy  2 days back

                  i would describe my style as items from every 80 year old woman’s closet

                  • Margaret Allen
                    Margaret Allen  2 days back

                    Do your homework and your homework and your homework got here

                    • MakeupNemesis
                      MakeupNemesis  2 days back

                      People: "Who are you looking good for?"

                      *Um, myself bitch tf*

                      • Summer Elizabeth
                        Summer Elizabeth  2 days back

                        All my clothes are so basic and I’ll be obsessed with something new for like a week but then I just won’t feel good in it after that. I’m literally sitting here debating on whether to just go out in my pyjamas because at this point, I’ll feel more confident in them

                        • No
                          No  3 days back

                          Bruh I wore what I wanted to wear one day and a girl with black leggings, lifeguard hoodie, and white fila shoes said my outfit looked ugly. I looked her UP AND DOWN and giggled

                          • Christine H.
                            Christine H.  3 days back

                            I really hate my body so I never feel nice in anything I have, so this makes me feel more motivated to find things in a style I love but also feel comfortable in

                            • Ahnaliese : an eternal journey

                              I love that you started to channel to holy spirit of Jonathan Van Ness towards the end there

                              • abc.
                                abc.  3 days back

                                wow ashley you literally spoke my mind i used to be so afraid of dressing up because i didn’t wanna seem vain or attention seeking or anything that i always dressed up super mediocre but now i’m gradually learning to express myself better especially with a new group of friends who don’t make comments about my outfits because they have other friends who like to dress up too! :-)

                                • cavetown
                                  cavetown  3 days back

                                  i'm late, but my issue is i know my style but it doesn't look good on my body and hair type

                                  • Nunuwa Chothe
                                    Nunuwa Chothe  4 days back

                                    when I look into my closet I have only grandma clothes so sometime I borrow my moms blouse 😄

                                    • James Alan
                                      James Alan  4 days back

                                      I really wanna try to expand my wardrobe because i love fashion and I actually know what I like but I live in a pretty small town and I’m really worried about my safety... being a boy and wearing a skirt or a ruffley top just wouldn’t end well ://

                                      • sigha
                                        sigha  4 days back

                                        I love finding amazing people on YouTube,. Ashley I’m so happy to have found your channel, I absolutely love your content and personality. Thank you ❤️

                                        • Lydia
                                          Lydia  4 days back

                                          love your vids, your personality is so great!

                                          • Sophia Wong
                                            Sophia Wong  5 days back

                                            Ashley: We have these outfits that we really wish that we could wear, but don’t feel confident enough to.
                                            Me: I have many outfits that I really wish to wear, but my mom doesn’t let me wear them. ;-;

                                            • Kiera Noelle
                                              Kiera Noelle  6 days back

                                              TRY THINGS ON IN THE STORE oh my goodness. 23 years and I just got this down this year. I shop for specifics (jeans, T-shirt’s, cardigans) and I will narrow down within each category (dark/medium wash, dressy or casual shirts, work cardigans to be embroidered or cardigans for dress down). It helps stay on budget and to not go crazy with your style.

                                              I love these tips! I just dress business casually/naturally (cotton, linen, natural fibers) and I had a lot of the same mindset. It’s gone well :)

                                              • Melanie Rxse
                                                Melanie Rxse  6 days back

                                                Thanks so much! This really helped a lot! <3

                                                • Ada Erman
                                                  Ada Erman  6 days back

                                                  You are so adorable! I'm subscribing!

                                                  • Roobacca _
                                                    Roobacca _  1 weeks back

                                                    me crying in British because my only clothes are school uniforms

                                                    • Tee_ Time
                                                      Tee_ Time  6 days back

                                                      Yes I feel you girl 😣

                                                  • Sleeping Carrot
                                                    Sleeping Carrot  1 weeks back

                                                    Honestly cannot wear or buy whatever i like to wear bc of my Asian parents saying that i look like a pig everyday
                                                    I have one pleaded skirt i bought with my friend that they let me wear sOmEtiMes bc its tOo coLd
                                                    Lmao idk

                                                    • Marilyn Broadfoot
                                                      Marilyn Broadfoot  1 weeks back

                                                      Lol my school has a dress code and on the weekends in kinda a loser so like i just hang out in my pj's all day so i rlly dont have a style.

                                                      • Isabel Alexander
                                                        Isabel Alexander  1 weeks back

                                                        dark academia. preppy with a little grunge

                                                        • Sophie Ezra
                                                          Sophie Ezra  1 weeks back

                                                          I really needed this ❤️

                                                          • Crazy Kate
                                                            Crazy Kate  1 weeks back

                                                            My style is literally anything I like and looks good on me

                                                            *oh wait, that’s what a style is*

                                                            • Katherine Mahoney
                                                              Katherine Mahoney  1 weeks back

                                                              This is such an wonderful explanation of the process, I do this exact thing

                                                              • Bonniella ASMR
                                                                Bonniella ASMR  1 weeks back

                                                                My style is just to wear jeans and a cute shirt with sneakers....

                                                                • Sally Hamson
                                                                  Sally Hamson  1 weeks back

                                                                  My style is boots, a grey sweater, jeans, and a green jacket. I have a lot of green jackets that it has gotten to a point...

                                                                  • Leona F
                                                                    Leona F  1 weeks back

                                                                    my anxiety doesn’t let me wear something really fancy

                                                                    • Lowlife Lia
                                                                      Lowlife Lia  1 weeks back

                                                                      Thank you so much, you've made me feel so comfortable with my style. I absolutely love my current style thanks to this amazing video and your lookbooks. Im glad that i have someone to look up to in a Fasion sense !!

                                                                      • julianna moore
                                                                        julianna moore  1 weeks back

                                                                        6:51 what is ur bi-polar and u don't know which personality to reflect lmao

                                                                        • { kaylapitter }
                                                                          { kaylapitter }  1 weeks back

                                                                          *me having 2 tee shirts

                                                                          "Ah yes, time to assess"

                                                                          • Ice Cream
                                                                            Ice Cream  1 weeks back

                                                                            I relate a lot to when some1 says ohhh look who's wearing a dress today like it's so... annoying in a way cuz I'm just trying to experiment yanno

                                                                            • Charlie
                                                                              Charlie  1 weeks back

                                                                              I respect everything you said but I refuse to give up my cute shoes bc of my lifestyle/retail worker feet !! They're cute and I love them !!!

                                                                              • Lori Bedard
                                                                                Lori Bedard  2 weeks back

                                                                                If I don’t know what to wear I just put on jeans and a sweater. Light jeans with a dark sweater or dark jeans with a light sweater is awesome.

                                                                                • Tiaphar
                                                                                  Tiaphar  2 weeks back

                                                                                  Thx this helped alot!

                                                                                  • Nicole Lizama
                                                                                    Nicole Lizama  2 weeks back

                                                                                    I don’t know your background

                                                                                    • elen.a.h
                                                                                      elen.a.h  2 weeks back

                                                                                      thank you for this video 💕

                                                                                      • sunflower skies
                                                                                        sunflower skies  2 weeks back

                                                                                        i don’t know where to get clothes frommmmm

                                                                                        • Antonia Caragea
                                                                                          Antonia Caragea  2 weeks back

                                                                                          what if i’m too afraid to radically change my style and can’t bare the comments in the process because i’m already insecure?

                                                                                          • Revanne S
                                                                                            Revanne S  2 weeks back

                                                                                            The problem is not in my confidence/style, I think I can pull them off if I have money

                                                                                            • Amira Bhayat
                                                                                              Amira Bhayat  2 weeks back

                                                                                              I have a style, but I’m not allowed to wear short stuff so it basically ruined my whole style so it’s great 🤠

                                                                                              • honestly ,sO TrAsHhH
                                                                                                honestly ,sO TrAsHhH  2 weeks back

                                                                                                I’ve been trying to dress in what I think looks nice but my fucking gut is stopping me. Especially after a little something called upper ab fat. Like I just wanna dress nice. 😔